Amazing! Who would have thought the old fashioned 2000-year-old “backwards” Bible would have any valuable information about sex?
When you do as many stories as I do about what our kids are being taught in school on television and on the internet about sex you start to think, “Boy am I backwards about sex!” Then I snap back into reality and realized that sex has been perverted by the “brain trust” of the day.
The “experts” tell us that our kids need to be able to explore and express themselves; that they need to understand their sexuality. They even say kids as young as three years old have sexual urges and desires they need to understand.
Sex education is not the reproductive education that we had back in the seventies! I recall we were taught what organs were used to reproduce and how they functioned, how baby grew in the uterus and so on. In my opinion, there was nothing dirty, just an explanation as to how God set up the system.
Then came child psychologists telling us that parents were incapable of teaching their kids about sex. They claimed parents were limiting their children to heterosexual relationships only and that was stifling to the child.
There are districts that teach kids about bestiality, lesbianism, homosexuality, bi-sexuality and transgender sex. They also explain how to have sex in a safe, natural and satisfying way! Don’t say “Ugggh” yet. This starts in early grade school. The reasoning? It’s because kids will explore these things at a very young age and they need to be taught how to do so properly. Now all together, “Ugggh!”
However, an article in the Huffington post states that a new study shows too many sex partners makes for a bad marriage. How is this news?
The study was done by two university of Denver professors. They compiled data on 1000 subjects who were 19 to 24 from 2007 to 2008. They then checked on 418 of the 1000 who got married within 5 years of the study. They focused on 32 different measuring points, but the 4 main points focused on were, relationship happiness, thoughts about separation, frequency of confiding in one another, and a general item about how well things are going.
The findings should not surprise you. Those whose spouse were the only one they had sex with before marriage, in other words one sex partner, were much happier and content than those who had multiple partners before marriage. The study went on to say that the more sex partners they had before marriage, the more unhappy they were in their marriage. Go figure, Gods Word is right.
However, all good things must come to an end. The Huffington Post interviewed other experts who cited that the couples who only had one partner really wouldn’t know if they were having a bad relationship because they had nothing to compare it to.
God, in the manual He has given us, tells us that we are to be husbands of one wife, and that wives are to respect and love their husbands. It also teaches us that sex before marriage is not healthy for you mentally or physically, but that sex within marriage is both honorable and a blessing.
So, where is the news flash here? The Creator, the maker of the product (for you slower ones, God=maker, us=product), already stated this in His Word. He did so to let us know how to have a happy, productive, healthy life; a life centered on God’s Word, living in His love and mercy.
If you live a godly lifestyle and if you obey His Word in your marriage, you will have a healthy and happy marriage. You will also have healthy and happy children. Simply put, you will have a great life!
I’ll stick with the Maker. As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord!